3959 E 31st St, Tulsa, OK 74135
Services
The facility centers on The Club Room at Stanleys, an exclusive reception space connected to both memorial chapels for seamless ceremony-to-reception transitions. The climate-controlled environment features comfortable furnishings, soothing artwork, and configurable seating with round tables, bistro tables, and lounge areas. A private Records and Archives roomâreferred to as the 'speakeasy'âprovides a lockable library-like setting with fireplace and bar for intimate gatherings. The property offers ample parking for guest convenience. The Chapel of Light provides an intimate alternative to the larger Grand Chapel, distinguished by its stained-glass window.
Stanleys structures its service delivery around reducing family burden during difficult periods, with staff handling logistics from documentation filing to catering coordination.
Stanleys Funeral & Cremation Service has operated from its stately one-story building at 3959 E. 31st Streetâjust east of Harvardâsince 1909, making it one of Tulsa's oldest continuously operating funeral homes. The business has built its reputation on what it terms "concierge level of service," positioning staff as available around-the-clock for family needs.
The funeral home distinguishes itself through meticulous attention to detail, from fresh flowers in restrooms to flying personalized flags (such as University of Oklahoma colors) during services. This approach earned Oklahoma Magazine's "Best of the Best in Burial and Cremation Care" award for five consecutive years, 2018 through 2022. Stanleys maintains a 4.92/5.0 rating based on 149 verified reviews.
The facility serves midtown Tulsa and surrounding zip codes including 74135, 74105, 74114, and 74136, with a particular focus on veterans' services as a state-licensed and authorized provider.
I was able to seamlessly provide my Brother, a Navy Veteran, the funeral services he had previously pre-paid, after his sudden death with the local assistance of Cassandra at Stanley Funeral Home in Tulsa! I am living in California and my Beloved Brother was in Oklahoma and in m...
Where do I start about how wonderful Stanleyâs Funeral Home was with my loved ones arrangements⌠The staff was professional and filled all needs and answered all of the many questions. I especially want to give kudos to Cassandra, the Funeral Director, I know it takes a special ...
I canât tell you how wonderful it was to have Cassandra at Stanleys walking me through my fatherâs passing. From the first moment, I knew that I would be taken care of. I knew nothing about making arrangements, so i appreciated Cassandra walking me through the process, and answer...
Iâve had quite a few experiences with funeral services unfortunately. Iâm glad I finally met these people, Iâll never use anyone else. They were very pleasant, in every way they made things easier and I have never experienced that before. I can tell some wild stories about mistak...
Stanleyâs was there for our every need and went over and above expectations. They assisted our family even when they were not being paid for services and guided us through every process along the way. They provided referrals that were 5 star. Cassandra was always available and ti...
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