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“My brother died in a miserable way, but the song resonated with me”

He lost his younger brother Paul in 2026. He shared this 22 days after Paul’s song arrived.

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Paul’s songThe Language I Ignored (Gospel Version)
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IPaul’s song

“The Language I Ignored (Gospel Version)”

A gospel song for Paul · 4:37

0:00 4:37

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Verse 1

Chorus

Verse 2

Chorus

Bridge

Verse 3

Final Chorus

IIHis words, in his song

What he wrote about Paul, word for word, and the lines it became.

  1. Who he wasPaul was a younger brother of mine 66 years old. He was very good to PEOPLE… He liked contemporary rock and roll.
    In the song 0:14

    Sixty-six years, my younger brother

    Playing contemporary rock and roll

    You were good to people, kind and true

  2. A memoryI didn’t get into his world like I wish I had
    In the song 0:38

    Oh, Paul, I wish I stepped into your world

  3. What he taught himNever ever leave people alone… I’ll never ever turn my back on a sibling again
    In the song 0:51

    You taught me never leave a soul behind

    I'll never turn my back on blood of mine

  4. A memoryFriends came friends went, family paid no attention to him… he was treated like the black sheep of family
    In the song 1:14

    You were the black sheep, fading in the gray

    Friends came and went, the family looked away

  5. His legacyhe didn’t deserve to die alone
    In the song 1:33

    But you didn't deserve that quiet at the end

  6. His message to PaulI didn’t give him the benefit of the doubt and he tried to talk to me as a brother. I ignored his language… I’m asking for his forgiveness please
    In the song 0:59

    I’m asking for forgiveness, hoping you can see

    You tried to talk to me, brother to brother

    I ignored your language, I couldn't figure out

    How to give you the benefit of the doubt

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IIIPaul’s story

Paul was his younger brother, and he was 66. He was very good to people, he had a good heart, and he liked contemporary rock and roll.

He lived his life quite differently than most of his siblings. Friends came and went, family paid no attention to him, and he was treated like “the black sheep of family.”

Many abandoned him, his brother writes, and he died from loneliness. “He didn’t deserve to die alone.”

“I’m truly sorry I didn’t give him the benefit of the doubt”

What he wanted Paul to know

Paul tried to talk to him as a brother, and he never really tried to understand who Paul was to him. “I didn’t get into his world like I wish I had.”

Paul was a difficult brother to live with, and his brother did his best to show his love towards him. He misses Paul, and he wishes he could “spend more valuable time with him.”

Paul taught him a lesson, in his words: “I’ll never ever turn my back on a sibling again.” He asked for a song that tells Paul he is truly sorry, and asks for his forgiveness.

When it arrived, he started sharing it with friends and others, along with the lyrics.

IVEverything he said

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Thinking about a song for someone you love?

I’m not a writer.
You don’t need to be. You answer questions about them in your own words, like Paul’s brother did, and the song is written from what you tell us.
What if it isn’t right?
Tell us what to change. Every song includes a free revision within 14 days of getting it, and if you still aren’t happy, you get a full refund within 30 days.
How long does it take?
Paul’s song arrived the day after his brother ordered it.
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The Language I Ignored (Gospel Version)